I Have Given Up on Life. I Turned 23 Last Month and Not Able to Finish College ,I Have No Freinds ,No Social L?
Question by anshul m: I have given up on life. I turned 23 last month and not able to finish college ,I have no freinds ,no social l?
I Have given up on life , . Whenever i try to improve i fail .I turned 23 last month and not able to finish college , still pursing bachelors from distance learning . I have no friends , was never good at studies back in school . I do not have a girl friend . I am not able to concentrate on my studies and always fail . I am over weight 92-93kg and 5.11 inches. There are lot of issues in my house
I feel cursed , i still live with parents , I wanted to be independent , cook my self and do housekeeping. Study , become a businessman ,actor-travel show host or counsellor-HR , POLITICS ,OR police detective and I love travelling but all my dreams are shattered because of my attitude .
I am also very insecure and not good at confronting and not aggersive at all. I have dark circles , buttock acne. I get scared when someone bigger or aggersive guy dominates me .
I want to fight back , become successful ,have confidence and join Theatre for confidence and facing people.
I WANT TO AT TIMES GIVE UP AND GO TO A REHAB BECAUSE whenever i try to improve I fail. i keep failing and i give up
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Answer by MO
Rehab? Are you into drugs or alcohol as well?
You have to take hold of yourself and do things to change your attitude. Get out in the fresh air – with some music – that always lifts the spirits and tell yourself that you can achieve what you want. It will also help with weight-loss.
Small steps – but first make up your mind what path you want to pursue – I wld get rid of the actor-thing – if you are insecure, that won’t work. Police – if you get frightened of bigger guys…..!
HR of Politics? Do you really like either of them? You say you’d like to have your own place and cook for yourself – do you like cooking? If so, try that. We are all in our jobs for a long time, so choose something you really, really want to do.
I always wanted to teach, so …….studied hard and……success.
One small success my friend and it will lift your spirits and make you believe you can do it. So jogging or walking in the fresh air – lose a bit of weight – first success!!! Give yourself a pat on the back and on to the next goal. Understand?
Good luck – I’ll be thinking of you. You can do it. Tell yourself you are as good as anyone else, better than some.
Mo
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