Help! Need Some Encouragement?

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hopefully this will be short…been dating guy for almost 3 years, live together. The man that made a believer out of me for “love at first site”, the man that blessed me with feelings of “butterflies”…the man I “want” to spend rest of my life with. Problem? Was addicted to cocaine/crack when we met, has been off of for 1 1/2 years..this I know (passed two drug tests that I have given him)..turning point, failed drug test and I left, after ALOT of convincing that he would quit, went back with him! The other addiction he has, drinking ALOT, yes..he has slowed down, but will NEVER quit.. something we live with and fight about Alot! Not only does he have this addiction, demon to live with..he is disrespectful (flirts with woman in front of me) but, he can’t be trusted. As hard as I have tried to trust, he gives me reasons not to trust him more than reasons to trust him (finding “hidden” empty liquor bottles, sneaks when goes to store to down a beer, caught smoking crack in my basement (before he quit, I know he hasn’t done since)..just reasons not to trust! He has not worked since we have been together (I make good money and pay for everything), although, he does do side work and some “extra” money in (which he blows) sometimes. I have EVERYTHING to gain, and NOTHING to lose by ending this relationship. I need some help, some advice on what I should do and some experiences that other people have dealt with…thanks!

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Answer by Ann
You can have him. But why go addiction ways?

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